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T H E G S P O T A N D O T H E R S E N S I T I V E A R E A S If you look at your lover’s vagina and superimpose on this image the image of a clock with the 12 hour aligned with the clitoris, then you can find the G spot usually somewhere in between the hours 11 to 13. Some women say that their most sensitive areas are in the areas 4 or 8 of the clock, at about half distance of the posterior vaginal walls. There are in these areas nervous endings that could explain the sensitivity of these areas. If you already tried light penetrations in various directions, you might have discovered that your lover has erogenous areas known only to herself. Keep in mind that the role of this exploration is only to please your lover, and not an attempt to find special places or buttons that trigger her arousal. Make the stimulation of the G spot a part of the variety of pleasures you are willing to offer her. THE ANUS For some women, the anus is an erogenous area, and for others it is a completely insensitive area. You need to ask her and see how she feels. If you both are interested in the anal part of lovemaking, then it is best if you start gently and sensitively, and to make sure you have enough lubricant. If you feel her anus contracting while you stimulate it, then you need to be less intense in stimulation. If necessary, you can use as lubricant a natural oil, such as virgin olive oil, or sun flower oil, or some non-irritating cream. THE BREASTS As compared to the rest of the feminine anatomy, the breasts are relatively simple in terms of structure. The nipples rest on the darker circles of the areola, and they become erect when stimulated. Men usually turn over to the breasts as "buttons" of excitation. Nonetheless, although many women like the immediate stimulation of their nipples, most women prefer a light and gently stimulation in the beginning. Generally, try a circular massage of the breasts in order to increase her arousal and anticipation, before touching her nipples. Keep in mind that few women experiment a lot of pleasant sensations when their breasts and/or nipples are touched. So do not get disappointed. Bring your fingers together and press gently before touching the nipples, as this will increase the quantity of the energy in the area and it will stimulate it. When you touch her nipples, perceive the magnetic current flowing between your fingers and her nipples. Touching the nipples with the tongue can be very effective, as through the tongue can circulate an enhanced quantity of energy. Sometimes, just as in the case of men, the nervous paths of the nipples require an activation, that can be achieved by means of gradual, light stimulation. Nonetheless, your lover needs to approve of this slow, gradual opening.
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