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S P O N T A N E I T Y A N D L O V E M A K I N G
THE LOVEMAKING ITSELF
Spontaneity is also manifested during lovemaking. If regularly the man leads the dancing, in lovemaking both lovers can be active or passive, leading the game or allowing to be lead.
Of utmost importance is the experience of love, which allows things to evolve freely, waiting for the moment in which the body begins to move and to vibrate on its own desire.
Thus, we begin to move together, naturally, precisely in the way we feel better do move, one for the other, changing spontaneously our attitudes and gesture to be in harmony with our lover and with ourselves.
Ultimately, it would have been absurd to jump to various pelvic movements during lovemaking. Although there are certain sexual movements, fundamental so to speak, they need to be spontaneous, born from reflex, generates by being close to one’s lover, when the two merge intimately, acting and reacting as one, and this touch will be realized in more nuances than a simple pelvic movement.
The genuine erotic experience cannot exist in the absence of this total communication. Therefore, we need not think that one of us is doing something for the other, in the other or even with the other.
In fact, it is a creative and spontaneous communication in which the couple manages to act as one being.
LOVEMAKING AND BOREDOM
Our spontaneous physical movements are practically unlimited and they include, potentially, all the known and registered techniques.
In fact the spontaneous eroticism comes from that creative, inventive and artistic part of our minds and beings and therefore we are united in a more harmonious and creative way if we do not impose any plan on ourselves.
Spontaneity is a key through which we can understand why spiritual lovemaking can never be boring. Just as in the case of an artist, this is all about pure creativity, bringing about happiness and elevation.
We do not need to be preoccupied by premeditation, about thoughts regarding the form, size, shape, speed or force of the movements that generate the excitement.
First of all the sensation of uniqueness is born inside of us, the intimacy, the closeness, the union, the fact that we have become one being who feels, acts and reacts spontaneously as a whole rejoicing in their unified consciousness.
If we do not make any effort to move one way or another, or to inhibit certain gestures or movements, paying attention to perceive both your sensations and those of your lover, your movements will begin to flow naturally, as molded by an endless wave, carrying us in a new universe of perfect harmony in which all flows and dissolves all forms.
This very instability and continuous change of the form gives birth to aspiration, to elevation, and the quest of all that is eternally immutable, the yearning for God.