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Nonetheless, her tendency to inhibition will do more damage than good. She should instead remain calm and warm, helping her lover get over this unpleasant moment for both of them.
Regardless of the cause of an impossibility of getting an erection at one time, the purpose is to overcome this moment and to get the desired erection.
The secret oriental teachings recommend for this case that the man undresses completely and lies on the bed, relaxing. He tries to get into the state of receptivity named "the pose of perception", in which he no longer focuses on getting an erection, but on eliminating the cause that lead to the lack of erection.
His lover lies in the same bed, on his left side, with her head towards his feet, without touching him.
The man slowly passes his hands over his abdomen, until reaching his penis. Then, he will hold his penis with his right index and thumb, while his left hand takes hold of his testicles.
He focuses on the image of his contracted pelvic muscles and views his penis and all it channels. Then he pulls his fingers to the head of his penis, continuously pressing it. Simultaneously he will tense the penile muscles, visualizing how the penis is filled with virility and energy.
Repeat this sequence several times, maintaining the contraction of the penis during the time required to "go over" the entire length of the penis, from the base to the head. When reaching the head, relax the muscles and release the penis.
Relax for a couple of minutes, and repeat the sequence: hold your penis, press, slide the ring formed of the index and the thumb slowly from base to head, while contracting the penis. Repeat once more, and then maintain the position with the eyes closed.
Then the woman makes the same movements with the exact position of the hands: she holds her lover's penis with her right index and thumb and presses the base of the penis, and her left hand gently holds his testicles.
At this moment, the man has to make a powerful contraction of the penis and he has to maintain this contraction all the while the woman slides her fingers along his penis. She will press as much as needed to create the sensation of a gentle sliding.
The woman has to release the penis when feeling the contraction becoming less powerful. At this point she will not let her fingers slide back, at the base of the penis, but she will let the penis "fall" freely, and only then she will encircle it with the ring made of her fingers.
The man and woman repeat the process as described two more times, after which they relax. Then the man lies on his stomach, and the woman will lie on his right side, in the same position as described before.