sivasakti.net - The Point of Non-return. Part 1

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T H E P O I N T O F N O N - R E T U R N
P A R T 1

The point of non-return is defined as the point in which you no longer can avoid ejaculation and it appears due to intense and uncontrolled excitation during lovemaking.

If you wish to practice sexual continence you have to stop when you feel that you are getting close to this point, taking your time to calm down the effervescence, to transform the "explosive" energy and to sublimate it into volitional, affective, mental and spiritual energy.

WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU DID NOT STOP AND CONTINUE MAKING LOVE AFTER THE POINT OF NON-RETURN?
1. Your will weakens and becomes subordinated to the sensation.

2. The control over the sexual energy and generally on the whole of your being is very small.

3. Appears the abandon and the dependence on the physical pleasure.

4. Sexual studies indicate that these are the moments in which one may experience the most intense psychomotor excitation, when the movements and the breath become rapid and erratic. Some persons with a somewhat pervert nature manifest vulgarity, triviality or even physical violence towards their lover.

5. Tere are strong spasms announcing the imminence of the ejaculation.

6. Finally, the ejaculation occurs.

This stage sometimes appears gradually, other times with the speed of light, not allowing you possibility of acting. However, the attention is enough to perceive its approach.

WHAT ARE THE PARTICULAR FEELINGS INDICATING THAT YOU ARE GETTING CLOSE TO THE POINT OF NON-RETURN?

The penis becomes very hot
You feel slightly euphoric and in the same time you lack mental control; some men have described this state as a sweet torpor, or reverie, as if you were drunk.
Tingling at the level of your perineum
Irresistible desire of impetuous, full of passion manifestation, with deep, strong penetrations, increased speed, although the control over your sexual energy decreases sensibly

In most cases, when the excitement grows constantly a longer period, we may expect a quick ejaculation, because the point of non-return appears unexpectedly.

Therefore, it is highly important that we become very attentive during lovemaking so that we perceive the symptoms announcing the point of non-return.

When the excitement builds up gradually, the point of non-return is announced by the above-mentioned symptoms, and it is easier for us to take whatever precautions necessary to avoid it.